“And most importantly of all, find your passion. it is absolutely essential you find a way to obtain the same level of satisfaction from your work as you do from your free time. to live for the weekend is, after all, to waste away 71.43% of your life.”
how we spend our days is ultimately how we spend our lives and I knew in my heart that the purpose of my life had to be so much more than what I was currently doing day in, day out.
Let me just ask you guys.. and you can raise your hand if you want.. but who here as been stuck in making a decision between two different people, tryna figure out which one you like more and which one to really be with?
well lets be honest, chemistry is a beautiful thing. I love it. Its so nice to meet someone and just click and share many things in common. To be amused by the same humor, like the same food, or movies, have the same view and opinion about a topic, all these things are chemistry. Believe it or not, we can have chemistry with 50 different people all at one time.
When we want to date someone, chemistry is what we look for in the beginning right? but if we have chemistry with all these people, then how do we choose?
This is when we look for connection.. because you can have great chemistry, but it doesn’t mean that there’s an actual connection..
So, what does connection mean?
it doesn’t mean you guys have all the same interests, but this is the person you feel whole with. It is a bond that is felt between the two of you.. For reasons that you cant explain, you and him/her will collide.. you know that things aren’t always going to be perfect, but you continue to love each other anyway. Things just work between the two of you, and somehow you just cant see yourself without the other.
I want to fall in love with life and “lay one brick down at a time a perfectly as it can be laid.” – until I have my wall of success. I know that it wont always be easy, but my focus is to dedicate myself to be better every day. To love better, speak better and do better. I want to explore and feel different parts of life, the bad and the good. so I can stay thankful for the little things. I also want to appreciate the people that come into my life and bring a smile to my face, because nothing is ever permanent and whatever happens ive learned to accept so gracefully.. and one day if I ever get married and have kids, I want them to love life as much as I do, to experience lifes adventures, be go-getters and live with passion.
“I hope there are days when you fall in love with being alive and I hope apart of you stays there forever.”
..2015 new years.. I remember spending midnight all by myself in the city apartment watching fireworks from the balcony. I was alone, but I felt the happiest I had ever been.. I played some music loudly in my room, danced and embraced the present moment with no worries.. completely alone, but whole.. and happy.
The best thing about life, is actually having the power to take control and be whoever we want to be. Hard work & consistency is what it takes; and as easy as it is to pick up a bad habit, its just as easy to pick up something good. You are the artist, and you work on your art from the moment you wake up, to the moment you go to sleep.. you are creating this masterpiece I call LIFE. Be unique, be creative, be YOU, because it’s not the “common trends” that move mountains, no, its being remotely different.
“I believe in living life the way that you want to live it every day, and if you do that, you don’t really need to have a new years resolution.”